Are you forcing your life or are you allowing your life?

Start your process of observation.

I invite you today to reflect about this question, are you Forcing or Allowing?

Let’s get into the forcing today.

When we were young we learned to do things by force. What do I mean doing things by force?

I mean doing things driven by a state of fear most probably, based being afraid of punishment or wanting a reward. Which is the same thing by the way only different sides of the coin.

We grow up and we are adults now and we get caught up in this dynamic in our life in everything we do and even when we don’t have to but it is how we learned and to change it we need to un-learn it simply!

The process of un learning starts by observation.

We start observing how we do the things.

I will give you a random example : If you have any kind of project (suppose you are an entrepreneur) or even a job or maybe a course you are currently planning to do.

Observe your motivation.

(If you are a paid subscriber read my article or listen to the podcast(What motivates your actions?) to have a deeper look into this.

Notice your drive, if it is money for example, ask your self what is my motivation to have money?and observe.Take note.

Is it fear that you don’t have money? or other fear related to money?

Is it a responsibility? That is not yours? And you are just burdening yourself.

(If you are a paid subscriber read my article about or listen to the podcast Responsibility).

Or is it a beautiful Intention of expansion and abundance?

(All my subscribers read the article Intention 1.1 )or Listen to the Podcast.

See where I am going?

The best practise now is that you start observing your actions and your behaviour, because to unlearn all this we must awaken our willingness to invest our time and energy on the change we want to see in our lives.

If you are forcing, you are in a state of Resistance.

Resistance in a simple way is the other force responding to your forcing and enforcing.

You may ask me, why this resistance? why it happens?

Resistance is our body natural response to what is not in its favour.

So, are you forcing?

I encourage you to start observation.

I send you much love.